Anyway, down to business... Things are not so good right now. My ex-wife is a no-good bitch who doesn't seem to think her kids are important enough for even 1 phone call. My children are all broken on the inside over this stuff. My girlfriend is great, but there are 3 things that will forever prevent her from being anything except a girlfriend. My bosses seem to think that appreciating me means to walk into my office everyday and say that I am not going unnoticed (then bitch and gripe about the little things that I can't finish because I am covering for them) and last, but definitely not least, my 9 year old son has threatened to kill himself. What a freakin life!!
Lets take these in order (sort of.) My ex. I don't know what to say about her, other than she is a very poor excuse for a human being. She is completely ignoring her children. I understand not remembering to call, but she has actually hung up on my son when he tried to call her! Right now, she has not spoken to her children in 6 months and has not seen her children in 14 months. she now has officially missedvmy son's last 2 birthdays. last time he at least got a call and some empty promises, this time he didn't even get that. She also missed my daughter's birthday, though she will blame that on me (i had lost my phone and didn't find it till after 10 pm and didn't ant to call as she in 1 hr ahead and lives with her parents) I did play the message for her, but that was the last time they heard from her, and it was more of a bitter msg directed toward me...
The kids don't now what to think... A is convinced she doesn't love him. I try to let them know that she has problems, and needs to get some help so that she can remember how to be a Mommy again, but they can only take so much. From their POV, she won't call; she hangs up if we try to call; she won't come see them; and she won't send them anything. To them, she is acting like she never wanted them, and it is tearing them apart. My son is taking it the hardest. He is having a lot of anger problems at school. He has been suspended twice this year for throwing things at people and making threats. Its not really helping that I have to work as much as I do, and I am trying to make positive adjustments to correct that. He is hurt and is closing himself off from everyone. He wants to hold it all in and show that he is tougher than she is, but it is coming out at the wrong time, in the wrong way, and directed at the wrong people. We have started counseling, and I thought it was helping, but then 2 days ago, he was making threats about killing himself, and wishing he was dead. We went straight back to the therapist and we both sat in a session. It looks like he was doing it more for the attention than to actually hurt himself, but he does have low selfesteem right now....
Work, that is a joke. I bust my ass, and get bitched at because a time shet isn't printed and signed. I know that is for their records. they don't use that to process payroll, only to keep as a signed record of my time.... I was busy trying to keep us from losing 3 clients early in the week, and I am sorry, but it kind of slipped my mind... I have asked to see the paperwork that I signed when I was hired, and ever since, the owners have ended every conversation between us with "your aren't going unnoticed" It is quite comical. I don't need to hear that, I need to see that. Put some money in my pocket so that I can afford to take my kids to the movies 2X a month. Make it so I don't have to wait 2 weeks till payday when the kids get a hole in their shoes... In short, don't say that you appreciate me, just appreciate me!!!
Now for Pearl, things are mostly great, except for 3 items that really irk me. 1) he is very blunt. usually this isn't a problem, except when it comes to the kids. 2) she takes no initiative with the kids. She has been my G/F for nearly a year now. Its time to step up and show them that she enjys being around them (and if she don't enjoy it, then she needs to go) 3) she has an issue with telling her parents about me. They don't like me and are very crazy (nearly psycho) so she is scared to tell them that we are together. My POV is that she is an adult, and the Hell with what they think, but don't lie to them, thats the kid thing to do....
OK, I don't really fell any better, but maybe it takes a while to set in... :)
posted by Mr. Mom @ 3:59 AM
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